Author: Mary Jane Lopez

  • Traveling with Siblings: The Pro’s and Con

    Traveling with Siblings: The Pro’s and Con

    #SIBLING GOALS

    Traveling with Siblings in Japan
    Photos and Article of: Carlo Barace

    We may have seen a lot of travel posts of friends with photos tagging their girl/boyfriends or their whole family. Some prefer traveling alone. It is unusual to see siblings hanging out and posting photos with captions #siblings goals. I know there is an endless list of benefits of traveling with siblings, but I would just like to cite some in this article.

    My elder sister, younger brother and I decided to explore Japan, our first adventure outside the Philippines.

    ONLY ONE VISA APPLICATION

    This was the first thing that granted us the advantage of traveling with sibs. We had our visa application through the Reli Tours branch in SM North EDSA.

    Just a reminder, you can only apply for a Japan VISA via an accredited travel agency.

    Since we have the same last name (obviously), we decided to have one application and the Japan embassy had no worry approving our visas, given that we submitted all the required documents.

    The agency told us that even only one of us can process the application. There was no need for all of us to show personally. And I felt confident that our VISA will be approved 100% because there was no other assumption the embassy could have why we are flying to Japan other than tourism, right?

    I mean, the embassy just needs assurance that the applicants will be going back to the country and what could three siblings who obviously can’t stand the winter be doing in Japan?

    OUR JAPAN ADVENTURE!

    Traveling with Siblings in Japan
    Castle in Japan

    SHARE EVERYTHING, SAVE MORE

    We arrived in Japan and took a rest in a single-room apartment in Lahaina Yuhigaoka Condominium, which we booked before our trip via AGODA.

    If you are looking for a cozy yet inexpensive hotel and having no trouble in taking a 15min-walk from one of the nearest railway stations (Namba), then this hotel is for you.

    We had no problem sharing in one room because we are comfortable enough with each other. This includes savings in our advantages of traveling with siblings. Not availing another room saved us a few yens that could be traded for some delicious ramens (see it rhymes?).

    Eating Ramen in Japan
    Eating Ramen in Japan

    Eating Ramen in Japan      Ramen in Japan

    Those ramens could also be shared by us, but it didn’t happen just so you know. We all love ramen and you may call us whatever you want but we are not sharing, dear. Also, we could share our other belongings like clothes, toiletries to name a few.

    SAME ENERGY AND SIMILAR WANTS

    From the hotel, we also just walked our way to Shitenno-Ji Temple. I believe moving by foot was the most underrated part of our tour in Japan.

    Those long walks helped us appreciate more how clean the Japanese streets are, how cool the architectural designs of their houses are, how refined the residents are, and how rich their culture is.

    All these tiny details, above all, were the reasons why I always have the urge to go back to Japan. I even saw a Shiba-Inu, a rare dog of Japanese origin just by strolling.

    Shiba-Inu Dog in Japan
    Shiba-Inu Dog in Japan

    Temples and other spots could be very crowded during peak hours but because we were minutes away from the hotel, we went there as soon as the sun rose.

    We had the chance to capture memories by taking pictures without you know, the photobombers.

    We also had the privilege to solo the hidden Japanese garden which I consider one of the highlights of our stay in Japan. We had no problem setting our own pace because we had no other acquaintance to consider.

    Again, I want to emphasize that I was with my siblings only and not with our parents. We spent a day at the Universal Studios in Osaka.

    Given my parents’ age brackets (no offense meant Ma and Pa), we all can assume that no parent will enjoy the whole day walking and queuing that could last for over an hour just for a ride.

    I think walking is already a part of the Japanese people. Maybe that explains why they have longer life spans.

    DISCOVERING NEW THINGS

    Japan Universal Studios
    Japan Universal Studios

    Traveling with siblings could also give you new revelations with your “since birth” buddies.

    Only that time at the theme park I found out that it was my brother’s first extreme ride. He hates heights. And in my sister’s case, I just discovered that she was freaking afraid of heights and the dark.

    We all burst into laughter when we rode a monstrous roller coaster because my sister was yelling the F-word nonstop. She even passed out a split second on-air upon reaching the summit of that one hell of a ride. That was so hilarious.

    EASY TALKS ABOUT MONEY

    One more important point is you can straightforwardly talk about money. You don’t have to be conscious of dividing the bills in front of them which is sometimes difficult to do with your friends.

    Siblings in Japan
    Siblings in Japan

    You could also borrow money from them easily. And if you are the lender, you don’t have to worry that they will forget since you will keep annoying and reminding them even after the trip.

    SIBLINGS WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU

    Speaking of swearing, have you cursed a specific place because you went there with your previous lover? Worry no more; traveling with siblings doesn’t apply here.

    You can go back to any place you’ve been without feeling bittersweet or gloomy, right? As they say, you can choose your partners, but you’re left with no choice when it comes to your sibs (sarcasm inserted).

    Your siblings will never leave you alone even in the most embarrassing instances. Just like this one time when we visited the Osaka Castle at night to experience the so-called Lumina Nights.

    Sakuya Lumina Japan
    Sakuya Lumina in Japan

    During our stay in Japan, the weather was very unpredictable. The sun could be filled with life during the day and then rain poured at night.

    So your conclusion was right, the next thing we know was we were already running with our lives to find a shade that night.

    Luckily we spotted a vending machine that offered raincoats. It was our chance to experience wearing transparent raincoats and feel like we are some characters in an Anime show.

    But we couldn’t make the machine work! We had no choice but to call out for help. It’s embarrassing. But thanks to that lady resident who came for us.

    Man, she couldn’t hardly understand English. We just explained it with hand signals. If there was a contest in charades, I could be a champion after our trip to Japan.

    But the Japanese people were very helpful despite the language barrier. More of them came for us and helped us try to make the machine work but we had no luck.

    Instead, the locals helped us to create a makeshift coat made with plastic bags. Our dreams of being Anime characters were shattered and we became Oscars of Sesame Street.

    THE CON

    The only thing that is bothering when traveling with siblings is the argument. The fact that siblings are too comfortable with each other, they tend to lose patience easily.

    That moment when any of you start complaining? Boom! Domino Effect. The vibe will start spreading with the whole group.

    Anyways, those moments are now laughing stocks when we are reminiscing our trip. Just like when we first arrived at one of the train stations, we were like first graders solving a calculus problem.

    Japan Train Ride
    Japan Train Ride

    Traveling with siblingsThe railway system of Japan is so advanced yet complicated. We all installed JapanTravel, an application downloadable for free in the App Store that would help us identify the best route for a specific destination.

    And guess what? Sometimes, the app gave us different recommendations. Imagine the chaos it caused us, given that we were time-constraint and starving.

    Of course, short temper and hunger are partners in crime. We learned the system quite fast because of those arguments at least.

    We experienced a lot of challenges. We couldn’t control the turn of events but the important thing is we learn from those experiences.

    With this kind of trip, siblings’ bond becomes stronger and that, I think is the most significant advantage of traveling with our “original barkada”.

    It gives us better memories and a tougher relationship. We are looking forward to our next adventure in South Korea and I’m very much excited to share with you our next #siblingsgoal.

     

  • How to Apply I-485 Adjustment of Status with K1 Fiance Visa (with or without K2 derivative)

    How to Apply I-485 Adjustment of Status with K1 Fiance Visa (with or without K2 derivative)

    APPLICATION FOR ADJUSTMENT OF STATUS (AOS)

    After you got married to your petitioner or fiance within the 90 days period, it is a must to apply for adjustment of status and process your papers for your permanent residency. This is the process called “Green Card Application” where after you have submitted all the requirements and supporting documents and gets approved, you will receive your 2-year residency card (green card) or possibly a 10-year residency card if you file after 2 years of marriage.

    You can also apply for Employment Authorization (EAD) to obtain a work permit here in U.S and Advance Parole or Travel document (AP) if you want to travel outside the U.S while still processing with your adjustment of status. You can file all these 3 applications together with single filing fee. But in my case, I only applied for two and those were the AOS and EAD.

    One week after our marriage in the county, March 2017, we received our Marriage Certificate. We started our application for adjustment of status after we completed each and every single requirement of the Form I-485 Adjustment of Status.

    Filling up Form I-485 Application to Register Permanent Residence or Adjust Status

    This has a total of 18 pages where you need to complete all necessary documentation including important details needed in the application form. Make sure that the forms you are filing are the updated ones and don’t forget to sign all your application forms before filing them with the correct filing fee.

    REQUIREMENTS

    (EVIDENCE & SUPPORTING DOCUMENTATION )

    1. 2 pcs. 2×2 recent photographs

    2. Photocopy of Government Issued I.d with your photo typically passport and copy of the visa

    3. Photocopy of Birth Certificate

    4. Inspection & admission evidence such as Form I-94 Arrival-Departure Record or passport page with admission stamp.

    5. Photocopy of Marriage certificate

    6. Form I-944: Declaration of Self Sufficiency

    This is a new form implemented by USCIS for filers after Feb. 24, 2020. It has 18 pages that require initial evidence as well.

    7. Form I-864: Affidavit of Support

    This form has 10 pages with supporting documents such as income tax returns, w-2 or 1099s, form 2555, etc., copy of your sponsor birth certificate, passport, or certificate of naturalization or citizenship.

    REMEMBER: Failure to submit these 2 new forms will result in denial of your I-485 application for adjustment of status.

    8. Copy of Vaccination Record

    This was given to you when you completed your med. exam in St.lukes back in the Philippines.

    9. Copy of your I-797C, Notice of Action/Approval Notice

    10. Index page stating the breakdown of pages of your documents or a COVER LETTER with signature.

     

    APPLICATION FOR EMPLOYMENT AUTHORIZATION DOCUMENT (EAD)

    Filling up Form I-765 Application for Employment Authorization

    While you apply for your permanent residency, it’s also essential to file for Employment Authorization.

    This will allow you to have a working permit in the United States even though you’re still considered an alien or an immigrant.

    This application has the same required documentation as the I-485 Form so you don’t need to provide another copy of requirements, just that you have to complete its separate forms and it’s about 7 pages.

    But if you’ll be filing only EAD separately you have to pay $410 as filing fee and provide supporting documents or initial evidence such as:

    • Evidence of your admission (for example, a copy of your Form I-94, passport, or other travel documents)
    • Copy of your K visa

    APPLICATION FOR TRAVEL DOCUMENT/ADVANCE PAROLE (AP)

    Filling up FORM I-131 Application for Travel Document

    If you’re planning to travel out of U.S while you are processing your adjustment of status, you can also file for I-131, Application for Travel Document (5 pages) as your re-entry permit.

    But this I do not recommend, it’s better to travel once you already have your green card.

    Most K1 visa holders include this application in emergency purposes just in case there will be an emergency to travel out of the United States you are sure to come back easily if you have your re-entry permit.

     

    FILING I-485 AOS, I-765 EAD & I-131 AP

    FILING FEE: $1,140

    BIOMETRICS SERVICE FEE: $85

    • I-485, I-765, I-131 Filing Fee (2020) : $1,140 + biometric services fee of $85= Total of $1,225 made in single check
    • KIDS 13 yrs. and under filing with a parent in form I-485: $750
    • Kids filing separately: $1,140 (no biometric service fee)

     

    WHERE TO FILE: USCIS Chicago Lockbox

    For U.S. Postal Service (USPS):

    USCIS
    PO Box 805887
    Chicago, IL 60680-4120

    For FedEx, UPS, and DHL deliveries:

    USCIS
    Attn: FBAS
    131 South Dearborn – 3rd Floor
    Chicago, IL 60603-5517

    Or you can call the National Customer Service Center FOR MORE CURRENT INFORMATION.

    I hope this guides you throughout all the necessary documentation you need in filing your Adjustment of Status here in U.S. Now, I will share with you my timeline during our application to give an idea about the process and the letters or notice that you will receive from USCIS after you send all of these applications.

    Before that, I want to illiterate that I only filed for AOS and EAD without AP so unlike most of the K1 visa filers I didn’t receive a combo card. If you filed all these 3 applications together then that’s when you receive a combo card but not in my case I received each document separately in different periods of time.

    MY K-1 AOS TIMELINE

    I-485 & I-765 Notice from USCIS
    I-485 & I-765 Notice from USCIS

    APRIL 13,2017: Receipt of I-485 & I-765 Notice from USCIS

    • The letter states the next step which is to wait for Biometric Appointment Schedule Notice.

     

    MAY 5,2017: Receipt of ASC Appointment Notice

    • Stating Place of the Biometric Center
    • Date and Time of Appointment
    • Things to Bring on the Day of Appointment:
    1. ASC Appointment Notice
    2. Photo I.D such as passport, state-issued I.d, driver’s license, etc.

     

    MAY 23,2017: Biometric Appointment Day

    Approval Notice for I-765 Employment Authorization
    Approval Notice for I-765 Employment Authorization
    • More or less 10-20 minutes
    • After you’re done with biometrics, the officer will put a Biometric Processing Stamp on your ASC Appointment Notice

     

    JULY 29,2017:Receipt of Approval Notice for I-765 Employment Authorization

    • The letter states that USCIS will send my EAD card (Employment Authorization Document) in a separate mail.

     

    AUGUST 2017: Receipt of EAD Card

        • Finally got my EAD card.
        • Reminder: Check all your information in the card, if there’s some mistake request to USCIS to change what needs to be corrected as soon as possible to avoid future problems.
        • Your EAD card has only 1-year expiry.
        • So you have to have your green card already after your EAD expires.
    EAD Card
    EAD Card

    AUGUST 10,2017: Application for SSN Valid for Work Only

    If you’re already working here in the U.S, it is a must that you have your social security number. You should apply for your social security valid for work besides your EAD card.

     

    AUGUST 21,2017: Receipt of SSN Card

     

    DECEMBER 19,2017: Receipt of Request for I-485 AOS Initial Interview Notice

    I-485 AOS Initial Interview Notice
    I-485 AOS Initial Interview Notice
    • A letter stating the Schedule of Interview with complete information such as Date, Time & Location
    • Things to Bring on Interview as per notice:
    1. Both you and your petitioner which is already your (husband/wife) should be present during the interview
    2. This Interview Notice
    3. Government-issued photo I.d
    4. Documentation establishing eligibility for permanent resident status
    5. Employment Authorization (EAD) Card or Advance Parole (if any)
    6. Travel documents such as passport, I-94 (Arrival/Departure Document) and or you Advance Parol document (if any)
    7. Birth Certificates
    8. Husband’s/Petitioner’s Birth Certificate
    9. Husband’s/Petitioner’s Proof of Citizenship
    10. If you have kids, bring their birth certificates too
    11. Copy of Marriage Certificate
    12. Divorce decrees/death certificates prior to marriage/former spouse (if applicable)
    13. Relationship supporting documents such as joint bank statements, insurance documents, and other joint liabilities.

     

    JANUARY 23,2018: Initial Interview Day

    REMINDER: Arrive earlier than your scheduled time. Since before you get in at the main office there will be a security check and if there are a lot of people it will consume a lot of time.

    Once your there, here are the steps you might experience during your’s too.

    • Show interview notice
    • Check-in and register then wait for your turn to be called.
    • Once called, both you and your spouse will go in a private office with the interviewer.

    INTERVIEW QUESTIONS:

    1. Asked for passports
    2. How’s your married life?
    3. How did you meet each other?
    4. When and where did you get married?
    5. How many kids do you have?
    6. Asked for birth certificate of each petitioner & you
    7. Asked for the birth certificate of baby
    8. Are you both employed?

    Be prepared for every document that you have, make sure to take it with you just in case your interviewer will ask for it.

    Right after the interview the officer or the interviewer will hand down to you a letter which is the NOTICE OF INTERVIEW RESULTS which states that my case is being held for review and that my I-485 is complete and approvable.

    My case will be transferred to TSC (Texas Service Center).

    And also to allow no less than 120 days before making a status inquiry.

     

    END OF JANUARY 2018: Receipt of Approval Notice for Permanent Resident Card

    • The notice states that the application or petition has been approved and might be asked for biometrics again within 90 days. But fortunately, I didn’t have to re-do my biometrics before.

     

    END OF JANUARY 2018: Receipt of Green Card/Permanent Resident Card

    • Finally, I got my green card on-hand. Make sure to check all your information on the card and if there’s any error call USCIS immediately so they correct it as soon and issue you a new card with corrected information.
    • This green card has 2 years expiry so I was advised to file removal of condition of my green card 90 days before my green card expires.
    Green Card/Permanent Resident Card
    Green Card/Permanent Resident Card

    These are the steps I’ve gone through when I applied for mine. Just a disclaimer, I’m not a lawyer nor a professional immigration officer, every information I share here are all based on my experience and search on the official website of USCIS.

    Each case is different so you really have to do your self-research about your case, I would recommend going through the website of USCIS. If you’re a k1 applicant then I hope I give you some information that you need for your Adjustment of Status.

    Please do read my other blogs about my K-1 visa journey here:

     

     

     

  • What’s NEXT after K1 VISA Approval? CFO | ARRIVAL AT POINT OF ENTRY | CBP INTERVIEW

    What’s NEXT after K1 VISA Approval? CFO | ARRIVAL AT POINT OF ENTRY | CBP INTERVIEW

    The application for K1 fiance visa is just the beginning of your journey going to the United States. I know it’s been quite a long process but I would like to CONGRATULATE you now for getting through all the hustle of filling up the initial forms and passing the interview! So now that you finally received your K-1 visa, what’s next?

    Here are the next steps you should start doing after you received your passport stamped with the visa from U.S Embassy.

    CFO SEMINAR (LAST STEP after Release of Visa)

    It’s a guidance and counseling program or pre-departure orientation required by our government in the Philippines for fiances, spouses and other partners of foreign nationals or of former Filipino citizens. Given and promoted by Commission on Filipino Overseas to protect the welfare and safety of Filipino immigrants. This program can be taken in different locations around the Philippines, Manila, Cebu, Pampanga, and Davao.

    CFO – MANILA (+632) 552-4700 : Citigold Center, 1345 Pres. Quirino Ave. corner Osmena Highway (South Superhighway)Manila, Philippines 1007
    Email: info@cfo.gov.ph

    CFO – CEBU (032) 255-5253 : 4th Floor, K&J Building #4 Don Julio Llorente St., Capitol Site, Cebu City 6000
    Email: cfocebu@cfo.gov.ph

    CFO – CLARK EXTENSION DESK (045) 499-8119 : One-Stop Processing Center in Clark (OSPC) Clark Polytechnic Compound, Jose Abad Santos Ave., Clark Freeport Zone
    Email: info@cfo.gov.ph

    CFO – DAVAO SATELLITE OFFICE (+6382) 228-2432 : 5th floor, AMQ Building, Lakandula St. Corner, Dacudao Ave., Agdao, Davao City
    Email: info@cfo.gov.ph

    Before going to their office, be sure to make an appointment online or you can contact the office first if you have any other inquiries and complete all the required documents. Also, prior to scheduling an appointment for CFO Seminar you have to have your passport already with the stamped visa in it.

    REQUIREMENTS:

    If you haven’t received your visa yet, CFO still allows you to take the counseling just comply on the following requirements:

    1. Two valid I.D with a photograph
    2. Completed guidance and counseling form from CFO
    3. Valid passport
    4. Valid visa
    5. Completed emigrant registration form
    6. Please provide the following if it’s applicable to you. (If you or your fiance have a previous marriage before)
    • Divorce decree/certificate
    • Annulment paper

      CFO sticker
      CFO sticker k1 passport
    • Proof of residency/Alien Registration Card-ARC (for foreign fiance)
    • Proof of relationship (pictures together, chats, emails, etc.
    • Death certificate (widow/widower

    REMEMBER:  You should bring the printed barcoded confirmation form with you during your scheduled appointment or you can present the digital copy (either on your phone,pc or tablet) as long as your name and the reference number are there.

    Even though you made an appointment online, it doesn’t mean that you will be in the priority list so arrive early than your appointment time since registration takes time.

    The counseling is done in groups in a small room with one speaker/counselor. It takes about an hour and the release of the certificate is given on the same day after your counseling session.

    Your passport will also be released with CFO sticker together with the CFO certificate.

     

    On my experience, I thought I would need the CFO certificate at the airport during our flight and upon arrival at the port of entry but officers didn’t even ask for it. What’s more important is the CFO sticker that was on your passport.

    Even though the certificate is not that of importance I would still recommend keeping it on your important documents so that whenever or whoever will ask for it you are always prepared.

    CFO Certificate
    CFO Certificate

    BEFORE FLIGHT REMINDERS

    1. Check all important documents especially the yellow packet/sealed envelope. Organize it in a clear book and bring it into your hand carry, NEVER put it on your luggage or suitcases.
    2. Be aware of your luggage weight just so you won’t be charged for any extra fees at the airport. REMEMBER, do not bring prohibited items such as food, liquid especially illegal items.

    ARRIVAL TO POINT OF ENTRY

    In California, the first process we went through is immigration then CBP or Custom Border Protection Inspection and Interview then to baggage claim.

    Lines were separated among U.S passport holders and foreign passport holders so I was by myself when we through Immigration and Customs.

    This is why it is very important to have your important documents in your hand-carry luggage so that whenever and wherever you go you have with you all the time.

    IMMIGRATION

    First and foremost is, of course, passport verification.

    There will be biometrics and photo capture when you pass through immigration.

    If not all, most passengers pass by immigration so expect to spend some time here.

    Then you’ll be asked to proceed to Customs and Border Protection.

    CUSTOM AND BORDER PROTECTION (CBP)

    Here you will meet the CBP Officer who will first ask for your passport again for verification.

    Then together with your passport, hand over the Sealed Yellow Packet. Only the CBP Officer has the authority to tear the yellow packet and get the forms out of it.

    After all the checking and verification of documents, the officer will start the interview.

    Here are some of the questions I’ve experienced during my CBP interview.

    INTERVIEW QUESTIONS:

    1. When is the wedding?
    2. Share a short story about how you met your fiancé.
    3. Do you know your fiancé well? Is he a good man?
    4. Have you talked to your fiancé’s family?
    5. Did your family approve or accepted him?
    6. Which city will you live here in California?
    7. The officer also reminded me to get married within 90 days.

     

    REMINDERS TO ALL K1 VISA HOLDERS: You have to get married within 90 days to your U.S petitioner upon admission since this timeframe cannot be extended.

    After the interview, the CBP Officer started to scan my passport and other documents. She then returned my passport and kept the other documents.

    Until then you could proceed to baggage claim.

    BAGGAGE CLAIM

    After going through all those procedures, finally going to the release and picking-up of your luggage and suitcases.

    Some people go through further inspection of luggage before going out of the airport, officers ask to open your bags and investigate to each of the things you have inside.

    Luckily in our case we didn’t go through further luggage inspection and just found ourselves straight to the gate going out of the airport.

     

    These are the steps that you have to go through upon approval of your K-1 fiance visa. This is not the end of your visa journey yet since this is only the beginning of your AMERICA life and that there will be another process after you got married to your fiance and that would be the adjustment of status.

    It will be a long journey but I assure you it will all be worth it once you’re done with everything.

    I hope this gives you an idea of what to expect once you arrive in U.S.

    Just a disclaimer, I’m not an expert, neither a lawyer. All information I shared with you here are all based on my experience.

    I wish you a happy marriage and fruitful life ahead of your family!

  • Must Have Newborn Essentials Checklist: What You Really Need

    Must Have Newborn Essentials Checklist: What You Really Need

    First, congratulations Mama-to-be! One exciting part of the pregnancy journey is gathering together all the necessary things for your new baby. Sometimes it could get overwhelming especially if you’re a new parent. There are a lot of things and different options you could choose from that are easily available in the market or suggested by your family or friends.

    Believe me, I’m on the same shoe last year when I had my little girl. With the excitement of having a new baby, I wanted to have everything I could to be prepared when the baby arrives but I ended up having way too much than what I needed during that time.

    Babies can be expensive if you don’t know how to budget your money. You don’t have to spend too much on things that you would end up not using. Besides, your newborn only needs basic things such as food, sleep, comfort and most especially love.

    Here are the things I considered the most essential and the “must-haves” for my newborn. I hope this will help you in preparing for your new baby.

    Newborn Checklist
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    • 6-10 Onesies (Short & Longsleeve)
    • 4-6 Baby Footed Sleepers
    • 1-2 Hats
    • 4-6 Pairs Socks
    • 2-3 Pairs Mittens
    • Pants
    • Dresser or bins for baby’s clothes

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    • Newborn Disposable Diapers (about 2 boxes/packs)
    • Disposable Wipes
    • Diaper Rash Cream
    • OR if you prefer Cloth Diapers/Cloth Wipes (about enough per day like 8-10 diapers)

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    • 8-10 Burp Cloths
    • Breastfeeding pillow (Optional)
    • Breast pump/milk containers

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    • 6-8 Bottles with soft nipples (6 ounces)
    • 2-4 Bibs
    • Bottle brush

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    • Crib/Cradle Bassinet
    • Firm Crib Mattress
    • Waterproof mattress cover
    • Fitted Sheets for Crib
    • Remember for baby’s safety, it is advisable not to put anything in baby’s bed. No pillows or blankets and no toys.

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    • Baby Bath Tub
    • 1-2 Hooded Towels
    • Baby Wash
    • 2-4 Baby Washcloths
    • Baby Lotion
    • Nail Clipper
    • Rubbing alcohol

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    • Car Seat
    • Stroller/Baby Carrier
    • Diaper Bag

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    • Digital Thermometer
    • Nasal Aspirator
    • Pacifier (Optional)
    • Some rattles/plush toys

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    SAVING MONEY & BUDGETING FOR BABY

    BUY SECOND HAND OR USED ITEMS

    If you want to save money and be wise on budgeting, you can easily save with some necessities such as clothes and toys. It’s practical to get used ones or second-hand items since your little one will outgrow all these before you know it.

    BORROW WHAT YOU CAN

    You can borrow other things such as baby toys, high chairs, maternity clothes or baby clothes from your friends or other family members who have kids as well. Borrow what you can.

    But on travel and safety, make sure to purchase brand new items such as the car seat. This is very important since you have to assure that the car seat passed all the safety standards, not expired and quality guaranteed.

    BREASTFEED

    Breastfeeding will save you so much money rather than formula or bottle-feeding. No formula to buy nor feeding bottles. You may need a breast pump and milk containers when you’re a working mom or baby goes to daycare.

    USE CLOTH DIAPERS 

    Not practical but money saver for sure. If you’re on a tight budget this is the way to go. It would be an extra laundry but will surely save you money for other baby necessities.

     

    Newborn Essentials Checklist
  • Clayton Valley Pumpkin Farm Patch 2019

    Clayton Valley Pumpkin Farm Patch 2019

    Clayton Valley Farm Welcomes Mia for her 2nd Pumpkin Patch this Year!

    About Clayton Valley Farm & Christmas Trees

    Clayton Valley Pumpkin Farm & Christmas Trees has been in the business since 1980’s. It is a family owned farm situated in 1060 Pine Ln, Clayton, California. It started as a U-Pick Vegetable in 1980 and has grown into a pumpkin farm hosting some kids activities such as field trip tours and pumpkin patch during fall and halloween season.

    Open to public from October 1st- 31st, the farm welcomes visitors in the morning at 9:00 a.m until dusk at 7:30 p.m.

    Things to Know Before Your Visit at Clayton Valley Farm

    • General admission and parking are free. Except for the kids play area which is paid per child (adults are free)
    • Pets are not allowed.
    • Cards such as credit or debit cards are accepted for purchase.
    • Varieties of pumpkins in different sizes and colors will welcome you upon entrance.
    • There’s a gift shop where you can purchase different halloween decors and displays.
    • There are also photo stands like “face in the hole” boards for pictorials.
    Clayton Valley Pumpkin Farm Patch

    Kids Pumpkin Patch Activities

    The farm is truly a fun place for young children since there are lots of activities that they will surely enjoy such as the train ride, feeding animal farms, hay maze or straw tunnels and posing their best smiles in photo stand boards! But one downfall is that some of these activities are paid except for the “face in the hole” boards.

    1. Feeding Farm Animals

    One exciting activity that Mia surely loved at this place was feeding and petting these farm animals (goats, pig and chickens). They were caged and fenced well so it’s more convenient for kids. We just grabbed some leaves on the ground to feed the goats and watched other people feed other animals.

    2. Train Ride

    Pumpkin Patch at Clayton Valley Farm

    Enjoy a train ride for $4/person but free to infants from 12 months under. It operates from 3 p.m until dusk during weekdays and from 9 a.m until dusk during weekends.

    It goes around the farm, in the garden, past the animals and into a tunnel. Mia really loved it as it made sound every time it passes through the field of pumpkins.

    3. “Face in the Hole” Photo Stands

    These photo stands were perfect for kids photoshoot! The colors were bright and the images looked pretty cute! Mia is still small so she asked her Papi to carry her up to the holes so she could be like other kids who were all set with their faces looking out for some pictures.

    4. Hay Maze Tunnel

    The hay tunnel was great for bigger kids. They were playing and running around inside and out the tunnel chasing each other. Mia went to experience it as well but it was so dusty. We went couple of times since our little one enjoyed the company of other kids.

    5. Water Pumps with Tubes & Rubber Ducks

    Pumpkin Patch in Clayton Valley Farm

    The farm has 2 different parts, the upper area where you can see the gift shop and the pumpkins (free no admission) and the lower area where you can find large play areas for more kids activities(paid).   To enjoy this activity you have to pay for every child, adults were free. Admission fee for both play area was worth $15 for every child.

    Although you’ll spent some dollars here, it was a great idea to enjoy pumpkin patch with the whole family.

    6. Ball Return Game

    Pumpkin Patch in Clayton Valley Farm

    An extra fun for little boys was this ball return game inside the paid area. We decided not to go inside since most of the activities here were all for bigger kids.

    7. Others

    Pumpkin Patch in Clayton Valley Farm
    Pumpkin Patch in Clayton Valley Farm

    There were more activities inside the paid area which kids surely loved such as:

    • Bean Pools
    • Large hay maze tunnels
    •  Ball Launchers and Foam Blocks

    8. Gift Shop/Halloween Decor Shop

    Colorful gift shop full of halloween decors and fall pumpkin displays. This is also the place where you can purchase tickets to play in the large play areas.

    Prices here aren’t that cheap even for pumpkins but we saw a lot of kids enjoy this place and families who were there celebrating pumpkin patch.

    Overall, it was a wonderful experience, Mia enjoyed every moment we spent there. The farm was well organized from the parking to the fun areas. The staff were welcoming and helpful. There were good varieties of pumpkins too and we really liked the gift shop, little Mia was stoked with different halloween decors!

    Have you been in Clayton or visited this place? Where did you celebrate pumpkin patch this year?

  • 2nd Pumpkin Patch in Larry’s Produce: Fall 2019

    2nd Pumpkin Patch in Larry’s Produce: Fall 2019

    Larry's Produce Pumpkin Patch2nd PUMPKIN PATCH IN LARRY’S PRODUCE

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    Mia’s first pumpkin patch last year was a fun experience for all of us that’s why we decided to make it as part of our family culture and an annual tradition. She had seen giant pumpkins for the first time and played in the stacks of hay and corn kernels at Larry’s Produce in Fairfield.

    We are so happy to bring her there once again this year for her 2nd pumpkin patch, this time with other kids from Nurse Family Partnership!

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produceStacks of Hay and Pumpkins at Larry’s Produce, Suisun Valley Rd. Fairfield

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produceABOUT LARRY’S PRODUCE

    Owned by Larry and Lisa Balestra,  Larry’s Produce is known to be one of the best sources of fresh fruits and vegetable in Suisun Valley. One refreshing getaway located in Fairfield California with varieties of fresh options at an affordable price! It’s a local favorite for a wholesome family pumpkin patch experience!

    The farm is open almost seven months in a year from June to December and welcomes customers from 9:00 a.m to 5:00 pm daily.

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    We were invited by Nurse Family Partnership to Pumpkin Patch this year, they set-up a place exclusive for the family who are enrolled in the program. They have a little activity area for kids to do some art work with the pumpkins and a food stand for every family to share with.

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    Pumpkin Patch

    It was nice to see other families who were with their little kids having fun and enjoying each other’s company.

    Indeed it was a perfect day! The farm has the perfect vibe for pumpkin patch with all the varieties of pumpkins in different sizes and colors. We all had fun especially our sweet dearie, Mia had a blast! She played with other little kids and enjoyed every activity with them.

    Things to Know Before Your Visit at Larry’s Produce

    • Remember to bring cash since they only accept cash no cards. (But they have atm machine available too for your convenience)
    • Customer’s can pick up fresh fruits and vegetables from the farm so if you want to do this don’t forget your shoes.
    • They provide shopping carts and wheelbarrows but it’s always advisable to bring your own bags.
    • There are food trucks and food stands too available in certain times.
    • Parking might be a bit busy during weekends so come early.

     

    Kids Pumpkin Patch Activities

    Activities were the same as last year except for the pyramid of hay with pumpkins display right at the center of the farm. This year they have different arrangements, it was pretty easy for kids to play and run around and for parents to take pictures of their little ones.

     1. Giant Pyramid of Hay and Pumpkins

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    How cool is this pyramid?! It was for sure the center of attraction of the farm, the main spot for everyone’s perfect pumpkin photoshoot! Mia stood happily and full of excitement as she waved her hands for pictures, she was so amazed by its height and the pumpkins sitting on top of it.

    This was absolutely a great idea since it captures the interest of more families to come back again for the next pumpkin patch!

     2. Ride in An Old Farm Tractors

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    These old farm rides were only for displays, each was designed for pumpkin patch. We’re not really sure if they’re still working but they have stacks of hay and pumpkin displays perfect for kids pictorials!

    The Nurse Partnership arranged a tractor ride for all the families who attended the activity, it went around the corn field and all the way back to the pumpkin farm. We seated at the first seat next to the driver and as we moved along Mia pointed out the big wheels of the tractor and says “wow” as it made it sound.

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's producepumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

     3. Run Around the Corn Maze

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    This was one of the places that families love at Larry’s farm, a perfect place to chase their little one in the corn maze! Mia didn’t have the chance to play here last year since she was very young at that time but this year she had fun!

    At first she was hesitant but when her Papi (Dad) pretended to be a dinosaur and chased her in the maze, she runs as fast as she could. It was a fun play time in the corn field!

     4. Corn Kernel Play Area

    corn kernel area in larrys produce

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce Another favorite spot for little kids is the corn kernel area where you can find small play tractors. Most of the little ones from nurse family partnership stayed here longer than any other activities. Kids loved swimming on top of the grains and hide their little toes and legs underneath, just what Mia did.

    Each of the little ones took turns to play and ride in the small tractors. Mia waited for her turn and when she took her chance she didn’t want to let go of it until she saw the slide!

    5. Climb the Hay and Slide on a Big Tube

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produceThis slide was not as slippery as an ordinary slide, it was a customized slide made from a big tube on top of hay stacks. Kids climbed the hay to reach the top and slid down to the corn kernel area.

    Since our sweet dearie is so fascinated with slides at this age, this was her most favorite out of all the activities. After she had gone once, she asked for more!

    6. Colors of Different Types of Pumpkins

    pumpkins in Larrys produce

    pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    Another pumpkin patch at Laryy's produce

    We visited 2 farms this year for Mia’s Pumpkin Patch, here at Larry’s and at Clayton Valley Pumpkin Farm and Christmas Trees. I made two separate posts for each since we had a lot of pictures! But I would really recommend Larry’s Produce than the other since they have a lot fresh options in an affordable price and most of their activities are free!

    This year was another wholesome family pumpkin patch experience at Larry’s Produce! This place never disappoints us, we’ll surely visit again next year!

    Do you have the same tradition like us? If so where did you celebrate pumpkin patch this year?

  • How Can You be The Best Parent For Your Toddler

    How Can You be The Best Parent For Your Toddler

    Your responsible parenting is the most essential part of your child’s growth and development. We all want to be the best parents for our toddler but how?

    Toddler stage is the most challenging yet most exciting stage for parents. At this stage, baby begins to explore the world and take risks while learning.

    Here are some of the tips and advice you can do with your family including baby.

    These are very helpful among first time parents, like us at first we struggled on what to do but these simple ways made a big impact on our parenting journey towards our toddler.

    We hope it can do the same for you and your family as well.

    Knowing your Child

    Think about this, if your child as a toddler can write you a letter what would he/she say to you? Would he/she ask more of “Why’s?” or no questions at all just gratitude and “I love you’s”.

    Through this ask yourself, how well do you know your child?

    Remember how many times have you had fun time together, what are his/her favorite game to play with you, what are his/her favorite food, how do you take care of him/her and more importantly what are the ways you do to keep him/her safe and healthy.

    Being a Parent

    Being a Mom or a Dad to a growing toddler is not easy, you should have the patience, kindness and other good qualities like fun, playful, calm, thoughtful, loving, flexible and consistent.

    Among all of these qualities, which are you best at?

    You might have some other good qualities which you might discover along the way of your parenting journey. You’ll know that you’re showing good once you see your little one is growing happy and healthy.

    As what the famous saying goes, “As kids grow, they might forget what you said but won’t forget how you made them feel”. Toddlers like your child are observant and what they see and hear from you, they do!

    So be a good model for him/her, be the best reflection of how you want him/her to be when they grow into an adult.

    Looking Back…

    It’s also good to look back on your parenting journey, what have you learned so far being a mom or a dad. Looking back will make you realize your capabilities to be the best parent you can be.

    As a first time mommy, I could say that so far my parenting journey is a smooth sailing learning. I learn almost everyday with my toddler.

    I never thought I could have so much patience and extend it way beyond limits.

    I never thought I could take care of a new human being and raise her well into a joyful blessed kid.

    I never thought teaching is one of the skills I would be passionate about since I want my baby to learn as much as possible and as young as she is.

    Like us, these kind of realizations will motivate and inspire you to do more than what you have done before for your child.

    Thinking Ahead…

    It’s about your dreams for your child, how do you see him/her in the future. Spend more time with your child and explore new ways on how to develop his/her skills and abilities.

    It is essential for you to spend more quality time with your growing child since this is the stage where he/she begins to form the foundation of his/her learnings as well as building his/her character.

    Know your Family Strength

    Like individuals, all families have strengths. These are the things that you do well as a family. The power of working together to be happy and healthy in good and bad times. Do you know what your family strengths are?

    As parents, we build this strengths for our family whether it’s about health, safety, life plans for the future, relationships or involvement in the community.

    Build a Strong Family Ties

    A strong family ties means providing love and comfort within all the members of the family. This is how you communicate and build your relationship towards one another.

    It also means support of each members in any life’s circumstances.

    Strong ties begins in communication, how well do you communicate when someone is frustrated or upset.

    Indeed, listening is the key to understanding. Listen in full attention about each stories and understand their emotions.

    Do some new bonding activities that your family will surely enjoy especially your little one. This helps to keep your family happy.

    Create and Nurture Family Culture

    Creating family customs and nurturing special cultural practices such as traits are good for your toddler. These special customs are learned by your child from older family members and this helps build your toddler’s character.

    It would also be nice if your child learns about the history of your family. This helps them understand their roots and be proud of it.

     

     

     

     

     

     

  • Goat Rock Beach in Sonoma Coast State Park

    Goat Rock Beach in Sonoma Coast State Park

    Indeed one of the most scenic place in California is Goat Rock Beach. One of California’s attractions that you should visit if you’re a traveler or a group of family seeking a wonderful kind of adventure.

    SONOMA COAST STATE PARK

    Sonoma Coast State Park, cliffs and huge natural sea rocks going to Goat Rock Beach.
    Sonoma Coast SP spans 17 miles from Bodega Head to Vista Trail which is located approximately 4 miles north of Jenner. Beachcombers, fishermen, sunbathers and picnickers can access the beach from more than a dozen points along coast Highway 1.”

    Another day of unexpected getaway happened last weekend and it was an unforgettable experience in the serenity of nature. The beauty of this place is mesmerizing, the scenic views of the headlands, the long sand beach below it, the cliffs, the rock formations, the strong big waves from the ocean, and the wild life. It is such a perfect place to relax and breath after a long week.

    We didn’t know what to expect before our arrival but when we got there, it was beyond what we thought it would be.

    Sonoma Coast State Park is a rocky coastline with craggy cliffs bordering the pacific ocean located in Sonoma County at Bodega Bay, California. It features natural harbor and rock arches in rounded cliffs which divide many long sandy beach below its peninsula. The beaches are easily accessible by the public since it has a lot of entrance points and parking lots.

    Beautiful scenery at Goat Rock Beach

    We chose to go to Goat Rock State Beach, quite distance away from other beaches. On our way, we passed through a lot of gift shops, souvenir shops and restaurants. We saw most travelers have their R.V’s and camping trucks and some have their surf boards and camping gears on top of their cars.

    As we went through the rocky landscape, the astonishing scenery was breathtaking, it boost our excitement to get to the beach and see the water up close.

    GOAT ROCK STATE BEACH

    Small colorful pebbles washed off the shore of Goat Rock Beach.
    At Goat Rock State Beach located near the Russian River, home of harbor seal and some migrating whales.

    It’s a long wide sandy beach located near the mouth of the Russian river, where you can see great rock arches and natural cove. The beach has a fine grayish to black sand and the rocks were composed of small pebbles in different shades. Upon entry, we already saw public restrooms and picnic tables along side the parking lot and small walking path towards the sand going to the beach.

    We arrived late in the afternoon almost sunset, it was a perfect time since the temperature was not that hot and not so cold neither, just a super cool refreshing ocean breeze.

    ACTIVITIES

    We enjoyed playing beach volleyball, playing in the sand and running away from the huge waves. Some people were walking along the shoreline and some were just sitting and sun bathing. You can also try paragliding and kite flying!

    Paragliding activity at Goat Rock Beach.

    But the most exciting thing that we saw in our visit was the whale and the seal! Unexpectedly they appeared in the wavy ocean just in front of the beach, although it was in a distant, we still recognized that it was a whale because of its size and because it was blowing water. And the seal came very close to the shore, it was swimming with the waves.

    I didn’t get a good picture of the seal that was swimming in the ocean since the waves were too strong that it covered the seal so fast and it disappeared even before I made myself ready for the shot.

    Anyway during some time of the day according to few articles I’ve read, you can really see a lot of them offshore, it will be just the timing if you get there on that specific time of the day.

    THINGS TO KNOW!

    1.Although Goat Rock Beach has the gorgeous views of beautiful long sand and relaxing surfing waves, it is not advisable to swim here since the waves are too strong and the sea floor drops deep and fast.

    2. Dogs are not allowed, you can take your dog in the nearby beach, on Blind beach which is off the south parking lot of Goat Rock.

    3. Fishing is also prohibited since Goat Rock beach is part of Russian River State Marine Conservation Area (SMRCA).

    4. When watching seals or sea lions, authorities advised public to stay 50 yards away from it especially during between the months of March to August which is the pupping season.

    5. Please be very careful with the water, always stay above the highest water marks in the sand. The waves are very dangerous so be cautious especially if you have little kids.

    Our sweet Mia having fun on the shore of Goat Rock Beach.

    Another well spent weekend! You should never miss to visit this place once you are in California, it is such a wonderful adventure to the magical beauty of nature!

  • Ilsan Lake Park: A Family Layover Destination in South Korea

    Ilsan Lake Park: A Family Layover Destination in South Korea

    The beautiful Ilsan Park Garden

    After our 2 weeks vacation in the Philippines, it was time for us to go back home in U.S but before we reached California, we decided to take a connecting flight from Philippines to Korea and layover for 15 hours before our next flight to California.

    An exciting journey to South Korea begins when we first landed at Incheon Internatiol Airport at 4:00 in the morning. We are a family of three with a toddler so a long layover to a new place is perfect for another getaway! Being a spontaneous traveler as we are, we didn’t know first hand where to go since we haven’t really got a time to search for any destinations.

    One of our mistakes when we got there was not able to look for the right destinations on the web and not able to find the right resources about touring options in Korea. It was only after all our fun journey at Ilsan Lake when we discovered that at the airport, they have a transit tour desk where they offer free transit tours including guided tours around popular destinations in Seoul.

    Even though we didn’t know about it, somehow we managed to find the perfect spot for us to enjoy our time in South Korea and that was in Goyang City at Ilsan Lake Park. We took a taxi and in about an hour we decided to drop ourselves off in a restaurant for breakfast.

    Ilsan Goyang, South Korea

    Located in the north, South Korea, Goyang City is one of the largest city in Seoul capital area. It is a city in Gyeonggi Province where the most popular flower festival takes place every early April.

    We arrived in the city early morning, the weather was a little cold so we had to take a warm soup and coffee for breakfast. As it gets to noon, the temperature went from cool to warm.

    Strolling around Ilsan, Goyang City after a nice breakfast!

    Most of the stores and restaurants were still closed and there were not a lot of people around. We walked through places where we could ask someone for directions going to Ilsan Lake park. We went to ask a taxi driver but like most of the locals, he doesn’t speak and understand English so it was a struggle for us to communicate. Fortunately, there was one guy who curiously asked us where we were heading, he spoke a little English and just pointed us where to go and that the park was only walking distance away.

    Ilsan Lake Park

    Ilsan lake park is a city park located in Janhang-dong, Ilsan-gu District in Goyang City. It is a wide beautiful park of greenery of trees and rainbows of flowers in the middle of the urban area. Ilsan lake is considered to be the largest man-made lake in Asia covering an area of 300,000 sq. meters. A wide area for family to enjoy picnic and do some activities like running, walking and biking. It’s free admission only pay for parking fees.

    We walked few miles away from the place of the restaurant to the park. It was very convenient for a family like us to just walk and stroll our baby around the city of Ilsan. Since it was only about 7 a.m, we arrived at the park with no hustle.

    Peaceful atmosphere in Ilsan Lake Park
    Discover some amazing art works while strolling around the park.
    Huge water fountain in the middle of the wide Ilsan Park.

    Perfect for Relaxation

    The park has a wide area of paved pathway and refreshing environment. You can enjoy the scenery of colorful flowers under the trees, sit on benches and relax in small huts and feel the cool wind from the lake.

    We got our one luggage and 2 backpacks with us plus the stroller of our little one, it was not much but somehow it made us tired of walking. We took ourselves to one of the benches close to the lake. Sat and relaxed ourselves with the cooling wind blowing from the trees while we watched some people who were with their families or group of friends chatting at each other, also enjoying themselves with the beautiful view.

    Fountains in the wide lake of Ilsan.
    Windmill Tower, Ilsan Lake Park

    Inside the tower, we found an automatic blood pressure machine in which you have to put your arm in it and wait for one minute to get your b.p measured.

    And one more interesting thing to see inside was the writings on the walls, people have written their names and everything else around the walls. Some were messages and some were random Korean writings.

    Since we were already there and it was our first time in Korea, we decided to write our names there too just for fun and for the memories as well.

    A memory to keep.

    Right Place for Kids Fun & Learning

    What a brilliant idea to have a mini book shelf like this in a park. Kids can do reading, learning and playing at the same time! This easily attracts kids, with those curious minds, with no doubt they would run towards it and try to grab one book.

    Our little one, who loved books, excitedly runs towards the shelf and tried to reach one but unfortunately the books were written in Korean. We couldn’t understand a thing since the writings are very different.

    Mini Book Shelf, tiny library at Ilsan Park.
    Mia loved the beautiful flowers, she pointed at each one and tried to pronounce the colors of each.

    Strolling and Exercise

    A good place for exercise like walking, running, jogging and cycling. Ilsan park is most recommended among families and big groups who wanted to spend quality time together while doing some fun activities for exercise.

    Its a perfect spot for us after a long travel and also just the right place to be to wait for our next flight. We would have gone to a lot more places if we chose to take the tour that they offer in the airport but we didn’t regret anything since our little one really enjoyed walking and running around the park.

    Few Koreans exercising early morning at Ilsan Park.

    WHAT MORE TO SEE?

    The Beautiful Rose Garden

    Still inside the park in few miles away, visit the colorful rose garden. It is in full bloom during this month of May till June. Roses are in arches and in beautiful landscape.

    I got more excited when I saw the garden from afar for I have not known that there was a rose garden in this park. It was quite a dream for me to see a wide garden full of different kinds of roses since I’m really a fan of the colors of flowers in gardens as such. The colors were amazing, indeed it was such a nice refreshing scenery.

    The lady monument standing proud as the center piece of the rose garden.
    Our sweet Mia fell asleep after getting tired of playing.

    The Wooden Water Turbine

    On the side of the wood turbine is a small landscaped falls.

    Walk few more miles to reach the wood water turbine. There are small cottages on the side if you want to sit, lay or relax. Such a refreshing spot to rest, with a soothing sound of the running water from the falls and the wooden turbine.

    When we got here, there were some group of old ladies who were enjoying their lunch in one of the cottages and one who was doing some meditation on the other cottage.

    Ilsan Lake Park was indeed a perfect getaway for us and also just the right place to spend our time before taking our next flight. A long layover in one foreign country like Korea means a journey to explore little bit of the place appreciate it with nature all at the same time. It was definitely worth the travel and adventure!

  • Beach Hopping in Romblon, Romblon PH: Our 1st Summer Vacation 2019

    Beach Hopping in Romblon, Romblon PH: Our 1st Summer Vacation 2019

    It was our first time to experience an international travel having a toddler on a plane going to the other side of the world, in the Philippines. Although we knew how hard the travel would be, we still wanted to go for it was also the wish of my Mom who longed to see her grand daughter for the first time. When my husband and I both decided to spend our summer vacation in the Philippines, we thought that it was a perfect timing for Mia to enjoy the beauty of the country and at the same time to meet other family relatives who lives there such as her grandma, great grandparents, auntie’s, uncles and cousins.

    It was our first family vacation in Romblon, my island home. We stayed for more than 2 weeks and we explored places as much as we could. Listed here are places you can visit with your whole family once you visit Romblon, Romblon in the Philippines. It’s a short easy travel guide that gives you ideas on where to go with your whole family once you visit this beautiful island. You can also visit my previous post about Romblon for more travel destination!

    ABOUT ROMBLON,ROMBLON

    It is the capital of the province Romblon in the Philippines. It’s one of the three main islands comprising the province aside from Sibuyan and Tablas islands. It is the center of marble industry of the country and also most popular among tourists for its unspoiled white sand beaches.

    Natives or locals of Romblon are called Romblonanons. Since Romblon is part of Visayan ethnoliguistic group, locals have their own Visayan dialect, like how wikipedia described it, the dialect is called Ili, its mixed hiligaynon and cebuano.

    Summer season starts in April and peaks in the month of May. Rainy season starts from June onwards. Highest temperature would be during summer in May, where it can peak up to 38 degrees Celsius or a little higher than that.

    HOW TO GET THERE?

    One of the main transportation that you can use to get to the island of Romblon, Romblon is through a RORO vessel in Batangas Pier or in Lucena. Vessels are from 2go travels, Montenegro Shipping Lines, Navios Shipping Lines in Batangas and Starhorse Shipping in Lucena. Please refer to their official websites for trip schedule. Travel time is approximately 7-9 hours depending on the speed of the roro vessel and the weather.

    Or if you wish to take the plane, the only airport close by to the island is in Tugdan, in Tablas island. You can take a jeepney from Tugdan to San Agustin where you can catch another RORO vessel going to Romblon, Romblon.

    WHERE TO GO?

    BEACH HOPPING

    1. Bonbon Beach- Brgy. Lonos

    Bonbon Beach is the main tourist attraction in Romblon, Romblon. It became the most popular beach among all the white sand beaches in Romblon because of its long white sand bar that extends to Bang-og island. It has a fine white sand with calm waters and clear shore, best for swimming or diving.

    For you to get there, you can rent a motorcycle or ride a tricycle going to Brgy. Lonos, probably it’s about 10 minutes away from the main town. As of the moment, the beach is open to the public free of charge, you can enjoy the beautiful beach during sunrise at 6 a.m until sunset at 7 p.m.

    The views are amazing and extraordinary during sunset, when the weather is good and calm, the skies are filled with vibrant colors. There are also less tourists during this time so you can really enjoy the nature and the quiet environment.

    2. Lamao Beach and Restaurant- Brgy. Lamao

    Located opposite way from bonbon beach is going to Lamao, which is at the other side of the island. Here lies a beautiful and relaxing resort with a swimming pool overlooking a nice white sand beach close to a small island called Puyo. There were coconut trees which provide shades in paved walking pathway going to the pool and towards the beach.

    Lamao Beach Resort and restaurant is privately owned and an entrance fee is required upon entering the property. Entrance fees vary depending on age , adults is 70 pesos ($1.5) per head and kids is about 40 (>$1)pesos for each. There are also nipa huts for guests to rent for short time visit and for longer stays as well. For shorter visits, the large size hut costs about 500 pesos ($10) and 300 ($6) pesos for the small ones. They also have an accommodation if you wish to stay for more than a day, you can choose between air conditioned rooms to a regular one that has only a fan.

    Guests are allowed to bring their own food inside. But if you wish to grill and barbecue you can also rent a griller and buy charcoal in their mini store.

    The road going here is quite steep but once you’re there the experience will be worth your travel! For your convenience, you can rent your own motorbike or tricycle if you want to tour the whole island.

    3. Nonok Beach- Brgy. Lonos

    Nonok beach is a small yet a very nice private beach that has pristine beauty of the ocean and fine white sand. Entrance fee is 50 pesos ($1) for each adult and less for kids. They offer several amenities such as air conditioned rooms, tree houses, huts, tents, tables, water slide and even boats or kayaks for guests to rent.

    This is the place we visit most of the time since it’s only few distance from our house in Romblon and it’s easily accessible, its just beside the main road.

    Mia loved being in the water and play in the sand. She also enjoyed her time with grandma when they both go to swim every afternoon before sunset. It’s the perfect spot to relax and cool off while having some precious time with your loved ones during sunset.

    4. San Pedro Beach in Talipasak

    San Pedro beach is located in Talipasak, Romblon, it is a family owned resort which has been open to the public even before Romblon became a tourist destination. It’s a little far from the town, almost about 20-25 minutes away drive. It’s a best getaway for people who want more peace and more tranquility of nature. Since it’s privately owned, guests or visitors also pay entrance fee worth 50 pesos ($1) per person.

    Nipa huts are also available for guests to rent if you wish to stay overnight or for a few days. There’s also a big restaurant where you can order food and drinks.

    I remember before during my childhood days when my Dad used to take me with his foreigner friends to tour around the island, San Pedro beach will always be one of our destination. Our recent visit reminded me of the old times, nothing really change at all. From the classic look of their restaurant, the quiet environment, the beautiful view of the beach and the hammocks, it brought back a lot of memories.

    5. Cordova’s Resort- Brgy. Ginablan

    About 30 minutes away from the town of Romblon, Cordova Resort lies almost in the border of Brgy. Ginablan and Brgy. Agnipa. This is also a privately owned resort with an entrance fee that costs 50 pesos ($1) per individual. The resort features a small pool for swimming and a display of different marble structures of animals and other gigantic human like marble figures.

    There are amenities such as huts or bungalows and set of table and chairs for guests to rent. They also have air conditioned rooms for groups or families who wish to stay for an overnight or for a longer stay. Kindly refer to their facebook page for more details.

    The most interesting to see in this place are the different marble structures in display from the entrance way to the beautiful garden all the way to the swimming area. The arts and craftsmanship of Romblamanon artists are truly amazing.

    Aside from beach hopping, you can also do island hopping which is of course a more exciting adventure for your whole family! There are more to explore and way more to experience in this beautiful island, please do read my other blogs for more!