A Mother’s Day Special : Looking back to My Pregnancy Journey

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It is finally the month of May and I am so excited! Why? Because in this month we will celebrate Motherโ€™s Day and it will be my very first Motherโ€™s Day celebration with my little one. Being a new mommy is quite challenging but indeed a very rewarding experience, to witness one developing soul grow each and every single day is such a great joy.

I did celebrate Motherโ€™s day last year when I was still pregnant but my baby was just few months in my tummy before so I didnโ€™t really feel the spirit of motherhood yet. But I could say when I am at my final stage of pregnancy where I felt a lot of changes in my body, the hardship and the pain of labor, I started to realize that being a mommy is truly a gift and a blessing that should be celebrated once in a motherโ€™s life.

 

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Let me share with you my journey to the final milestone of pregnancy as this month will be dedicated to all the mothers in the world. It is such a sweet memory to remember the time when we conquered all the challenges that pregnancy brought to us for that special gift of new life and a new blessing of our family.

 

Third Trimester: The Journey to Final Milestone of Pregnancy

 

Little baby in my belly started to be mature and rapidly growing as Iโ€™ve gone through the final months of pregnancy, starting from 28 weeks until the final week. My pregnancy has been a tough start with all the sickness Iโ€™ve felt before but as Iโ€™ve gone through my final weeks Iโ€™ve felt many changes from my body to my growing baby in my belly bump and it was quite a challenging shift. As Iโ€™ve felt more of babyโ€™s lively movements such as kicking and stretching, I knew that that was the most fun stage of pregnancy despite all the uneasiness Iโ€™ve experienced physically. My excitement boosted up each day especially when I observed some changes in my belly bump.

There was a common saying that every pregnancy is unique but there are quite common symptoms that can easily be noticed among preggy moms. I could say that when Iโ€™m in the final trimester of pregnancy, I got a little over with exhaustion from being sick but the feeling of pain from my bones got more and more intense as my belly had grown even bigger.

 

The progress of pregnancy and the changes I experienced on my third trimester to my final weeks.

 

  • Peeing much more than I peed before during my 1st and 2nd trimester. Specially during night and in the middle of my sleep 3x at least.

 

  • Insomnia. Difficulty of sleeping. It was very difficult to even twist my body from one position to the other side, I felt like my back bones were cracking and my body organs inside my stomach were twisting too.

 

  • Very itchy belly, itโ€™s definitely true that once you scratch to feel relief, it would be an instant scar. As much as Iโ€™ve hold myself from scratching I still got myself some scar like they called as stretch marks.

 

  • Cramps and pain especially when lying. I felt leg cramps sometimes when I wake up in the morning.

 

  • Babyโ€™s movements were already visible even without touching my belly, just by observing my belly bump in my fitted dress.

 

  • Baby’s movements got more painful especially her big skeletal movements pushing in my flesh and bones.

 

  • Baby was more active with a lot of movements during the day now, no matter what activity Iโ€™m doing.

 

  • Feeling hungry most of the time, probably every 2 hours. I used to eat small snacks more often to satisfy my hunger for me not to feel nauseated and dizzy.

 

  • Got tired fast and easily gets exhausted when picking up stuff or just by standing from a long time sitting.

 

  • Getting off the car was very difficult I felt some pain on my pelvic bone like baby is pushing unto my bones when I push myself out and without any outside support.

 

  • Less constipation but experienced diarrhea sometimes.

 

  • More exposed belly button,yay!

 

This was also the time for certain laboratory tests like diabetes screening (OGTT) and dental check.up appointments.

 

Progression through the final stage of pregnancy means preparation of things for baby delivery as well. From the hospital bag, babyโ€™s necessities and everything about being a true mother of a newborn. The joy of excitement was real when we started buying babyโ€™s stuff and arranging them one by one so neatly in her own space in our cabinet. Despite all the discomforts from the pains and the exhaustion from all the difficulties Iโ€™ve experienced, the happiness we felt when we first saw baby was truly genuine.

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I hope to relate this special pregnancy journey of mine to some other moms who are experiencing this right now and to all moms all around the world. Dear moms, I congratulate you for being strong with all the sacrifices youโ€™ve gone through from pregnancy to raising your kids to the best that you can.

 

Truly, mothers are all kinds of amazing!

 

I would love to hear your story and share some great experiences on how you handled it from the very beginning to the final stage until you finally had your cute little one.

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65 responses to “A Mother’s Day Special : Looking back to My Pregnancy Journey”

  1. Jessica Taylor Avatar
    Jessica Taylor

    I love that you are documenting your journey! The third trimester was the easiest for me. I was finally comfortable and the sickness had finally died down some!

    1. Mary Jane Lopez Avatar

      That’s so true, indeed I felt relief from sickness too when I reached the third trimester! Thanks Jessica ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Nicole Avatar

    I love hearing other people’s perspective on those final days of pregnancy. Im currently pregnant with baby #3 and I can honestly say that it has been completely different with each one!

    1. Mary Jane Lopez Avatar

      Really? Wow congrats on your third baby Nicole! Happy Mother’s Day in advance!

  3. emily Avatar
    emily

    I do not have kids but thank you for sharing your story! My brother’s wife is pregnant and I am so excited!!!

  4. Molly Avatar
    Molly

    Thank you for sharing your story!

  5. Ally Avatar
    Ally

    We have so much in common! Last year was my first technical Mother’s Day celebrating being pregnant as well. I’m really looking forward to experiencing it this year with my little one by my side to celebrate with me!

    1. Mary Jane Lopez Avatar

      Im glad you can relate with my story! It’s more exciting to celebrate Mother’s Day this year right? ๐Ÿ™‚ Thanks Ally!

  6. Amber Myers Avatar

    I remember being here! I was so ready for the baby to be born. I was never one of those women who loved being pregnant.

  7. Ann Snook-Moreau Avatar
    Ann Snook-Moreau

    I haven’t been pregnant but from my friends and relatives, you’re right in saying that every pregnancy is different. My cousin really suffered from back pain, my sister-in-law is super nauseous, and my friend loved being pregnant!

  8. Annreeba Avatar
    Annreeba

    I love hearing other peopleโ€™s perspective on those final days of pregnancy. I do not have kids but thank you for sharing your story!

  9. Crysta Parkinson Avatar

    It is so lovely that you are chronicling your journey — some day baby can look back and see what it was like when you were eagerly anticipating their arrival!

  10. Victor Step Avatar

    Great to hear about your experience, especially because I am a male and have no idea what all of it must feel like.. Happy Mother’s Day!

  11. Robin Avatar

    Even though it seems a little more painful when babies moving around, I’m sure it’s so exciting to feel! I hope the rest of the pregnancy goes smoothly and you can get some rest!

    Robin // Penn And Quill

  12. Joan Cajic Avatar

    Just had my son 3 weeks ago, and it truly is a great journey.

  13. Nadj Avatar

    I do not have kids yet but it’s great to hear personal experiences from soon-to-be moms so I know soon what I will expect. Advance Happy Mother’s Day!

  14. Robin Avatar

    While the actual pregnancy was not my favorite state of ‘being’… my children are my most precious gifts from God and I would do it again if possible!

    1. Mary Jane Lopez Avatar

      I agree! Happy Mother’s Day to you Robin! You are one of the super moms for sure!

  15. tinahogangrant Avatar

    The journey through pregnancy is amazing and something we will treasure for the rest of our lives. I had such an easy pregnancy, I felt cheated LOL. Gained only 12lbs and only 45 mins of labor. I had just the one son.

  16. Chef Mireille Avatar

    everyones journey is unique and always great to reflect and remember what would be the greatest experience

  17. Sondra Barker Avatar

    I’ve heard that every pregnancy is different. Thanks for letting us join you on this beautiful journey!
    xo, Sondra
    Cuisineandtravel.com

  18. Blair villanueva Avatar
    Blair villanueva

    Thanks for sharing us your pregnancy story. Being pregnany is a blessing and its beautiful. I wish to experience it someday ๐Ÿ™‚

  19. Andrea Avatar
    Andrea

    happy mother’s day. i haven’t been pregnant myself, but i have a lot of friends and relatives. and i know they have all had very different pregnancies my friend who has two kiddos has also said both of them were different.

  20. Elle Avatar

    I carried twins and the third trimester kept me tired. I think it was the heat, but all I wanted to was rest. Sharing your journey is heart-warming I’m sure you’ll love reading this most years later.

    1. Mary Jane Lopez Avatar

      Wow having twins in your tummy must be really hard, you are a super mom! Happy Mother’s Day!

  21. Nik Avatar

    Beautiful picture, I loved it. Nice content, things we never been told by mom. Will wait for more Love for all mothers ๐Ÿ™‚

  22. Laura Avatar

    Thank you for sharing this! I really adore mothers, you guys are like super-women! โค๏ธ

    Laura
    http://www.wanderwithola.com

  23. Elizabeth O Avatar
    Elizabeth O

    I think it’s really lovely to document each step of your pregnancy, not only to look back on yourself but it really helps expectant mothers know what they may expect. Not long to go now ๐Ÿ™‚

  24. Sarah B Avatar

    Pregnancy was soooo much more uncomfortable than I originally expected. But you are so right, eventually all that discomfort becomes but a dull memory when you look into the eyes of your child, over & over again as they grow. It’s a great idea writing about your experience so you can compare it to your future experiences. Thanks for sharing with us ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Mary Jane Lopez Avatar

      Thank you Sarah! I read one of your post about staying with relationship and it was a very good read! Thanks again!

  25. Cathy Avatar

    keep journalling – you’ll appreciate this record in 10 – 20 years down the road. Its been 17.5 years since I had that experience the first time and reading your account brings me back and puts a smile on my face – that knowing smile – NOT the funny smile. LOL It was not a fun time and yet I had no idea how much wonder and love was in store for me. Mother hood (after the first few years) has been the best thing in my life!

    Much love,

    Cathy

    1. Mary Jane Lopez Avatar

      Thank you Kathy I really appreciate it. I would definitely do what you recommend to keep on writing, it’ll be fun to read and reminisce in the future.

  26. Berlin | momiberlin Avatar

    It is very incredible that you recorded your journey on pregnancy. I too experienced the pain in pregnancy. Have a Happy Mother’s Day.

  27. Rachel Avatar

    Insomnia and cramps sound horrible and annoying. Women really do have to go through so much when carrying a child. I hope they ease up soon!

  28. Carrie Liu Avatar

    All the respect to the Moms who go through such pain and uneasiness to bring a life into this world! Happy Mother’s Day!

  29. Betzy Cuellar Avatar

    I am excited to see others sharing their journey! I just started my thrid trimester.

  30. Chuck Avatar
    Chuck

    Very timely! Love to read such post like this. So much love and power to all mothers in the world.

  31. Sim @ Sim's Life Avatar

    Awww I hope you enjoy your first official Mother’s Day ๐Ÿ™‚ Such a special occasion! I just celebrated my tenth over in the UK… I am certainly have more grey hairs these days ๐Ÿ™‚
    The third trimester flew by for me as it involved Christmas too… I recall the distinct lack of sleep, noone ever warns you about before baby arrives too! Sim x #GYB

  32. Algene Avatar

    Wow! It’s so nice that you are writing about your journey. This will help a lot of women out there ๐Ÿ™‚

  33. LavandaMichelle Avatar

    What a wonderful story. I hope your mothers day is fabulous! Thanks for sharing. ๐Ÿ™‚

  34. Peter Avatar
    Peter

    The third trimester certainly is the most amazing of the trimesters. Having 8 kids, Iโ€™ll tell you all of Jโ€™s thirds were completely different

  35. Catherine Sargent Avatar
    Catherine Sargent

    Thank you for sharing your journey will us. The only thing I didn’t like was being in my third trimester during the summer in Florida, I was so hot all the time.

  36. Scott Avatar

    I think the third trimester was the hardest for my wife, especially for our first child. Not knowing what to expect other than what she could find in a book made things scarier. Now you can just look it up online!

  37. wendy Avatar

    I can remember eating so much food when I was pregnant. Happy Mother’s Day! It did get uncomfortable at the end.

  38. Brandy Avatar

    So neat to read someone else’ story. I don’t think I’ve ever shared my birth story of the three kiddos online at all but I honestly don’t recall each of them in enough detail. I know my first child took over 36 hours to arrive, I was int he hospital for three days BEFORE she finally arrived by the day after she had been born, I was begging the hospital to let me go home. They did but set me up for a nurse to do a house visit the next day just to be safe.

  39. Theresa Avatar

    I only gained 19 pounds with my first one, so thankfully it wasn’t an uncomfortable pregnancy. I did experience morning sickness the whole time, even throwing up as I was in labor. I was thrilled when it was finally over and I had my new baby in my arms and didn’t deal with sickness anymore.

  40. Tiffany Avatar

    I have witness myself that my sister and my sis-in-law went through all of these. It’s hard going through pregnancy but all worth it! Hoping to experience this myself soon. I have also dreamed to become my a mom. Thanks for sharing โ™ฅ๏ธ โ™ฅ๏ธ By any chance you are interested on doing collaborations, you can check out the collaborations portal of Phlanx.com and connect with amazing brands!

    Xoxo,
    Tiffany

    1. Mary Jane Lopez Avatar

      Thanks Tiffany I’ll check it out, I would love to have a collaboration!

  41. Tami Avatar

    I enjoyed reading through your pregnancy journey. I wish I would’ve documented such details with mine. All I remember is this last one was very tiring and difficult. (He’s worth it, though.)

  42. jill Avatar
    jill

    It is so nice that you are documenting every step of your pregnancy. I understand every stage is so different. I have two sister in laws due in the next month and a half so I am hearing a lot of the same things from them. I am very excited for you

  43. Denise C Avatar

    I was sick for the entirety of both of my pregnancies. I love my kids, but I’m glad I won’t have to go through that again.

  44. Marie Altenor Avatar
    Marie Altenor

    I did not enjoy my pregnancy. The only time I felt happy was when baby was kicking. I felt sick , vomit from the beginning until the day the baby came out. When they put my son on my chest it was all worth it. Happy first mother’s day to you.

  45. toby Avatar

    Hi Mary, first of, happy mother’s day to you. It is quite a journey to be a mother. While I am not a mother myself, I am a father and I am always thankful for my wife who went through a lot (just like you) to deliver my lovely boy. He is 8 now. Secondly, it is awesome you keep the diary of how things go. I am sure 10 years from now, this serve as a really good reminder!

    1. Mary Jane Lopez Avatar

      Thanks Toby. I really make sure to document each of our baby’s milestones and you’re right 10 yrs. from now it would be a great reminder!

  46. Annie Avatar

    Oh I remember the 3rd Trimester so well! I agree with you – I felt so much pain in my pelvic bone area. Walking uphills was the worst. Congrats mama! You will meet your baby soon!

  47. Lyosha Avatar

    Thank you for sharing! It’s true when you say like that it does sound fine. I am only going to start that journey soon (planning time now) so I am even more grateful for sharing your road with all the possible hardships

  48. Julie Plagens Avatar

    Having a baby is an absolute miracle. I remember every part of the pregnancy and delivery. It was painful, exhilarating, and frightening all at once. It will be fun for you to go back and read this someday. Great documentation of how it all went down.

  49. Elizabeth Avatar

    It’s certainly hard work being pregnant. I reckon it’s an evolutionary thing to make the third trimester that difficult you don’t care how much it’s going to hurt, you just want baby out! I’ve had three. ๐Ÿ™‚

  50. Ivan Avatar

    Always a beautiful story. I also love looking back at our own journey. It was kinda long but all worth it when our boy finally arrived.

  51. Monique Elise Avatar

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us! I enjoyed reading about your experience very much, it’s always interesting to see how different everyone’s pregnancies are.

  52. Mika Avatar

    I love hearing other peopleโ€™s insights regarding their final days of pregnancy. I don’t have kids myself but thank you for sharing your story!Glad you eventually overcame the hardships.

  53. Nailil Avatar
    Nailil

    The third trimester is the hardest in my opinion. At this point I couldn’t wait to meet my little one but I was also so over being pregnant and ready to have my body back. ๐Ÿ™‚ A whilrdwind of emotions.
    Xx, Nailil
    http://thirtyminusone.com/trendy-thursday-linkup-a-perfect-wrap-dress-for-spring/

    1. Mary Jane Lopez Avatar

      wow congrats to you in advance for a new baby nailil! may you have a safe delivery! ๐Ÿ™‚

  54. James Avatar

    Sounds a ton like what happened to my wife! Our daughter was a major kicker even before she was born,.

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